This is a link to a pdf file that does a good job of providing an overview of rthe issus surrounding egalitarianism and complimetarianism.
This is a link to the book I most recommend for a discussion of the issues. Why do I recommend it? Well, it "presents two essays representing the complementarian/hierarchical view of women and ministry--one by a man and one by a woman--and two essays representing the egalitarian view of women and ministry--one by a man and one by a woman." I don't think you can get more balanced than that. Also it is a discussion of the contemporary issues, meaning it does not deal with points that both sides consider settled.